There are several factors which play into answering all of these questions, several more than have been mentioned. Yes, for Latter-day Saints the standard has been set for 16. Yes, we are counseled to date others with the same standards as us. Yes, the whole dating game is a difficult struggle and is played just a bit differently by every personality and upbringing. ALSO, keep in mind that there is no HAVE TO in choosing to be obedient. Part of God\'s wonderful plan for us, His children, is that He has given us this gift called \'agency\'. He has also given us each-other. In families, part of parents loving their children is helping them set boundaries. By following and staying within those boundaries, we are happier knowing that we are obedient. The same is true with our church guidelines. ALSO, a friend is supportive of another for who they are. So, if you know the one you want to date has a standard to not date until 16, that person would be more flattered that you respect them for that than to tempt them to change what makes them them. Great friendships can and ought to be developed, even if dating is not part of the package. At a young age between 13 and 16 friendships are more often better off without the formality of a date and the \'oh, I have to impress this person\' awkward thinking. Depending on the individual, some may even have no desire to date, whether LDS or not, until they are in their twenties. My advice, be their friend--you can learn a lot from each other.